Hay guys, Ive got a story and then some questions I want your honest opinion on. I have a cousin I played airsoft with when we started. I think we all had a airsoft buddy when we started. Well I was more aggressive, daring, and a better love for the game. He just liked it, I pushed him too hard to continue on and play more often. I ended up playing by myself at feilds and grew as a player. (2 years later) Its been two years since I started to play solo, I've come far. I have basic gear, camo, upgrades, midcaps, and even a nice sidearm. I played with him again and he was hiding and not having fun, airsoft he stopped playing altogether. Now my friend Tori (yes she is a tomboyish girl), is violent, aggressive and smart. I want to see if she would like airsoft. 1.What are the signs of a airsofter? 2. How hard should you try to get a new player to play? I don't want to ruin someone else's possable airsoft life.